lesson for me tonight

Only in the darkness , you are able to see the stars.

inferior

Never let anyone make you feel bad about yourself. Even when they seem to have a point. Remember that there is some reason that person feels like they have to devalue you. And it's probaly because they feel inferior to you.

okay

The most wonderful feeling in the world is when tears turn to laughter because someone who doesn't want you to be sad said something funny to cheer you up. Suddenly you're lifted from a dark place and you know that, somehow, everything really will be okay.

Lessons in Life

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 

5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's okay to get angry with God. He can take it. 

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 

12. It's okay to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying. 

17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today. 

18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write from the moment you wake up till you goes to sleep, try to write a memorable book in other peoples heart.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 

22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you. 

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?" 

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch. 

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 

35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 

37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.

38. Read Philosophy and think deeply on hows and whys, take your time while thinking, think for mins, hours, days, weeks, months or years. Philosophy and thinking cover the answer of every worldly and beyond things, coz every answer is hidden just inside us, all we have to do is search for it with patience and faith. (a thought by me)

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 

41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. 

42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

45. The best is yet to come. 

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

48. If you don't ask, you don't get.

49. Yield.

50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift. 

essence

If you begin to care for somebody,

you will begin to learn the essence of sacrifice.

Your love

Your Love

Warms me

like my favorite morning tea

Your Love

comforts me

like a lake in August heat

Your love

melts me

from my eyes to my toes

Your Love

means everything to me

and I will never 
let you go...

100 things a woman would die for

1. Kiss her
2. Hug her
3. Love her
4. Hold her
5. Trust her
6. Advice her 
7. Support her
8. Impress her 
9. Surprise her 
10. Smile to her

11. Fight for her
12. Plan with her
13. Flirt with her 
14. Don’t test her
15. Share with her
16. Kiss her hands 
17. Travel with her 
18. Don’t lie to her
19. Dance with her 
20. Dream with her

21. Hold her hands 
22. Understand her 
23. Make her laugh 
24. Tease her softly 
25. Walk beside her 
26. Buy her flowers 
27. Touch her softly 
28. Take her opinion 
29. Help her cleaning 
30. Make her feel safe 

31. Be romantic to her 
32. Negotiate with her
33. Spoil her a little bit 
34. Go movies with her 
35. Believe in her brain 
36. Share her problems 
37. Spend time with her 
38. Be creative with her
39. Go with her shopping 
40. Open the door for her 

41. Have privacy with her
42. Take her out clubbing
43. Use the eye contact
44. Have her in your arms 
45. Do not promise but do
46. Be always proud of her 
47. Don’t make her jealous 
48. Dress her up sometimes 
49. Give her a foot massage 
50. Make her feel important

51. Mention how cute she is
52. Cook for her sometimes
53. Go to the beach with her 
54. Don’t let people interfere
55. Mention how sexy she is 
56. Do not underestimate her 
57. Use your emotions in sex
58. Make her breakfast in bed 
59. Make yearly anniversaries
60. She is the one and the only

61. Don’t push her to do things 
62. Talk to her about the future 
63. Have confidence in your self 
64. Take memory photos with her
65. Do grocery shopping with her 
66. Don’t ask her if she loves you
67. Warm her up when she is cold
68. Mention her beauty all the time 
69. Take her out for romantic dinner 
70. Tell her how much you miss her

71. Kiss her forehead and her cheeks 
72. Don’t mention your past relations 
73. Respect her friends and her family 
74. Refresh your relation every month 
75. Get to know her family and friends 
76. Use your lips to bite her neck softly 
77. Be jealous for her from time to time
78. Give her some space with her friends
79. Balance between her and your family
80. Hug her closely to feel her heart beats 

81. Keep telling her how young she looks
82. Say I Love You every time you see her 
83. When she gets her period make her relax
84. Play with her hair softly before she sleeps 
85. Get her small cute things it makes her happy
86. Give her a night romantic massage regularly 
87. Count to 10 before you say anything negative 
88. Put your hands around her while watching TV
89. Make her a hot bath and take a shower with her 
90. Be there for her even if she doesn’t need your help 

91. Tell her how lucky you are because you are with her
92. If she is cold give her your jacket and hug her closely
93. Watch her diet without hurting her or making her notice
94. Make her feel she is the most beautiful woman on earth 
95. Thank God and her for being born during your life time 
96. Make her a drink when you both alone and light some candles 
97. Whisper in her ears that you love her when you are with people out 
98. A couple of missed calls a day to show her that she is in your mind
99. If you don’t like something just tell her kindly and she will understand 
100. Write her something cute on a piece of paper and put it somewhere she can see first in the morning

empathy

by being hurted,we learn not to hurted people because we already know how much pain it caused.

Don't Quit

When things go wrong as they sometimes will,

When the road you're trudging seems all up hill,

When the funds are low and the debts are high

And you want to smile but you have to sigh,

When care is pressing you down a bit

Rest if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with it's twists and turns,

As every one of us sometimes learns, 

And many a failure turns about

When he might have won had he stuck it out;

Don't give up though the pace seems slow--

You may succeed with another blow,

Success is failure turned inside out--

The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,

And you never can tell how close you are,

It may be near when it seems so far;

So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit--

It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

'When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place '

Thankfulness

Share your joy, your love, your ecstasy.

Make life as beautiful as possible.

Just out of thankfulness that existence has chosen you to be, 
that you are allowed to be,  that you are given life. 

What else can you do? 

If you can sing a song, sing it with your totality. 

If you can paint, paint, and put your whole heart in it. 

If you can dance, dance to abandon 

so you disappear completely in the dance 

and there is no more any dancer 

but only the dance remain.