you - one day

One day you'll just be a memory for some people. Do your best to be a good one.

thought of the day

If you want your life to be a magnificent story, then begin by realizing that you are the author & every day you have the opportunity of writing a new page. 

truly beautiful - heart

The heart above all, is more real than the brain, for it does not think, it feels, for it does not lead you into darkness, but towards the light, for it does not grow hatred, but grows love, for it does not reflect, but forgive without hesitation, for it is the heart that make us truly beautiful.

lesson for me tonight

Only in the darkness , you are able to see the stars.

inferior

Never let anyone make you feel bad about yourself. Even when they seem to have a point. Remember that there is some reason that person feels like they have to devalue you. And it's probaly because they feel inferior to you.

Lessons in Life

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. 

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 

5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's okay to get angry with God. He can take it. 

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 

12. It's okay to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying. 

17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today. 

18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write from the moment you wake up till you goes to sleep, try to write a memorable book in other peoples heart.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 

22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you. 

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?" 

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch. 

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 

35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 

37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.

38. Read Philosophy and think deeply on hows and whys, take your time while thinking, think for mins, hours, days, weeks, months or years. Philosophy and thinking cover the answer of every worldly and beyond things, coz every answer is hidden just inside us, all we have to do is search for it with patience and faith. (a thought by me)

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 

41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. 

42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

45. The best is yet to come. 

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

48. If you don't ask, you don't get.

49. Yield.

50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift. 

Don't Quit

When things go wrong as they sometimes will,

When the road you're trudging seems all up hill,

When the funds are low and the debts are high

And you want to smile but you have to sigh,

When care is pressing you down a bit

Rest if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with it's twists and turns,

As every one of us sometimes learns, 

And many a failure turns about

When he might have won had he stuck it out;

Don't give up though the pace seems slow--

You may succeed with another blow,

Success is failure turned inside out--

The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,

And you never can tell how close you are,

It may be near when it seems so far;

So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit--

It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

'When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place '

Positive Alternatives

Rather than being annoyed, be amused.

Instead of getting angry, become curious.

In place of envy, feel admiration.

In place of worry, take action.

In place of doubt, have faith.

Negative energy is just positive energy

that’s flowing in the opposite direction.

There’s no need to fight or run away from that negative energy.

All you need to do is change its direction.

The more negative you are, the more positive you can be.

An automobile that can travel 70 miles per hour to the east can also travel just as fast when going west.

But first, someone must turn it around.

When you sense yourself becoming negative,

stop and consider what it would mean to apply

that negative energy in the opposite direction.
Turn your sadness into caring.

Transform your complaints into useful suggestions.

Change your bitterness into determination.

The energy is already there.

All you need to do is change its direction.